Finding my faith

When I was a child I assumed that I was a Christian, simply because that’s what I was told I was and that’s what everyone I knew was. I went to church with friends, more for socializing than for learning or worship, but never really felt like I fit in. Once I became a teenager I realized that I didn’t have to be a Christian and that I was capable of deciding for myself what I believed to be true in terms of a higher being.

I have always known that I believe in “something” and I have always felt that this “something” was watching over everyone. I also knew that I didn’t agree with some of the things in Christianity and that I have yet to meet a person who claims to be a Christian and practices what they preach. They all talk about being good people and how it’s important to let God judge people, yet no one I meet leads that life. (I would like to point out that I am not in any way coming down of Christians or arguing their beliefs and I am in no way saying that every Christian acts this way, as I’m sure there are a great many who lead very moral Christian lives.)

Admittedly, I have prayed to God on many occasions for help, even though I had no idea what I really believed. I even prayed for guidance as a woman at Wal-Mart instructed me to do after I would not accept Jesus right there on the baby food isle. She assured me that if I prayed he would lead me to him; I just had to be willing to see it when he did.

A few weeks later, my husband decided to research Islam. This research was not meant to be a life changing event, just merely a want for knowledge on the subject. He and I share the belief that you can’t judge things such as this without at least some true, unbiased knowledge on the subject. We both were tired of hearing people bash Muslims and call all Muslims terrorist; so his research began.

In the beginning I was less than interested in learning about Islam, I didn’t mind being ignorant, it just meant that I kept my mouth shut about something I knew nothing about. However, since it was something my husband was so interested it, I couldn’t help but listen to him when he spoke about it. Our talks at night before bed sparked my interest in the subject and I found myself reading about Islamic beliefs and practices for hours on end. It seemed like the more I read and the more we talked about it the more it made sense to me. It really seemed to fit into the things I had always believed.

One day it just clicked that this was God answering my prayer for guidance. I didn’t tell anyone, not even my husband, about my revelation as I thought they would think I was crazy. A couple of days later my husband told me that he wanted to convert and he was ready to do it right then, he had absolutely no doubts. It was both a relief and a little scary at the same time. I felt almost like we couldn’t possibly have spent enough time researching before we came to this conclusion. The reality is that sometimes we just know in our hearts that something is right, no matter how long we spend gaining the knowledge to support the feeling.

The following day I decided to tell my husband that I had also been thinking about converting and also about my fears and concerns. He agreed to wait until I was ready before he converted so that we could do it together. That was about 5 weeks ago. Since then I have come to terms with our decision and am totally comfortable with it. We have told our family and our friends and have for the most part have been met with support and understanding.  Going through this has shown me how blessed I am to have such caring and loving friends and family in our lives.

Last night my husband and I prayed for the first time. I’ll admit we did it in English and we used flash cards to guide us through so it was a little rough, but not as hard as we thought it would be. Today, I prayed alone for the first time (once again in English and with the flash cards). It is a lot different than anything I have done before, but it felt right.

I know, without doubt, that I have made the right decision. I also know that I want to be a better person, not only for myself and my family but for God as well. There are many changes that I will have to make in order to be the person I need to be. I have taken the first and hardest step by finding God and I feel like with the support of my husband, family and friends, the rest will come much more easily.


6 thoughts on “Finding my faith

  1. This post has brought tears to my eyes. May God bless you and always keep you and continue to guide you to Him. May you be a shining light for all those seeking truth. May your prayers always be answered and may your fears always be quelled. May you become God’s and may God become yours. Thank you for writing this, how beautiful.

  2. Praying Salath (nemaz) with ‘flash cards ‘ to help the dear Reverts/Converts (as basically all started out from Islam, as according to the HolyQuran, Prophet Abraham (pb) was the first of the Muslims) is indeed commendable to them, and soul-stirring to many of us born-Muslims who have taken Islam for granted, in fact sometimes feel too lazed to perform Prayer. May the AlmightyGod guide Cassie and hubby to the true Islam (as Islam has broken up into 72+ sects by now, as foretold by the HolyProphet Muhammad (abundant blessings be to him))
    May this link /book help them in their journey onwards 🙂

  3. Thank you for this wonderful post. I loved the part about praying with the flash cards – precious 🙂

    God bless you and your children.

  4. Assalam alaikum wa rahmathullah wa barakaathuhu,
    Dear Sister in islam,
    Barak Allah feekum on the most important decision of your life.
    May Allah make everything easy for you.
    I suggest you to start learning Arabic, the language of Quran to perform the worship with more sincerity.
    These are some useful resources.
    1. was set up over 8 years ago to introduce a website that would teach Arabic for free.
    2 .
    Institute of the Language of the Quran, based in Toronto, Canada.


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